When People Don't Value Your Value
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When People Don't Value Your Value

Nov 6, 2023, 3:33 AM
Vivien Mangalindan

Vivien Mangalindan

Columnist

THE BACK STORY Imagine having a bunch of precious pearls. Now, think of these pearls as:

  • Your time
  • Your talents
  • Your emotional energy

They're not unlimited. You only have so many to go around.

MATTHEW 7:6 - THE BIBLE'S WISDOM

In the Bible, in Matthew 7:6 (NIV), there's a verse that echoes this wisdom:

Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.

  • It's a piece of advice on being selective about where and how you share valuable insights or resources.
  • It reminds us that not everyone will appreciate the pearls we have to offer.

A METAPHOR EXPLAINED

The saying ‘Don't Throw Pearls to Swine’ paints a clear picture. It's like tossing your elegant pearls to some pigs.

  • Sounds odd, right? But it makes a point. You wouldn't give something precious to someone who can't appreciate its value, would you?

THE LESSON: CHERISHING YOUR GEMS

Your talents, ideas and generosity are like those dazzling pearls. They're valuable - and you're the guardian of this treasure.

  • To make the most of them and keep yourself happy and healthy - share them with people who can understand and cherish them.

Picture this. You've got a brilliant idea for a project - or a beautiful act of goodwill you want to share.

  • You can choose to share it with someone who will truly appreciate it - or you could share it with someone who might not get it at all.
  • It's like deciding whether to use your gems to brighten someone’s day - or just toss them away.

WHEN OTHERS DON'T SEE YOUR TRUE WORTH

Here's the twist. Not everyone will see your worth.

  • Some might not notice the awesome skills you have - or how much you care.

It's disappointing, but it happens.

BEING THE SMART TREASURE-KEEPER

The trick here is understanding the saying: ‘Don't Throw Pearls to Swine.’ It's about being smart with your treasure.

When people don't see your value - it's not about trying to change their minds. It's about shifting your focus.

  • Instead of trying to convince people who don't appreciate your worth - channel your energy towards those who do.
  • Imagine sharing your amazing skills and talents with people who genuinely appreciate what you have to offer.
  • Team up with friends who work together seamlessly to make remarkable things happen.

SELF-RESPECT: REDIRECTING YOUR WORTH

In a world where everyone's craving for recognition and appreciation - remember that you deserve to be valued and cherished.

  • When people don't recognize your value - it's not a problem to fix.
  • It's a signal to redirect your treasure to those who truly value it.

TIPS AND TECHNIQUES

Your talents are your treasure. By sharing them wisely, you can:

  • Build amazing relationships
  • Have a more fulfilling journey through the game of life

In the end, it's about self-respect and maintaining your happiness.

Remember: You are a treasure - and your pearls should shine where they're most appreciated.

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