The art of making friends at work and play
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The Art Of Making Friends At Work And Play

Dec 29, 2023, 1:00 AM
Vivien Mangalindan

Vivien Mangalindan

Columnist

Let’s talk about something important: making friends. Whether you're at work or relaxing in your free time - connecting with people is the name of the game.

MAKING WORK BUDDIES:

Colleagues Can Be Cool Friends Too

FRIENDLY VIBES ONLY

First things first. Approachability is the secret sauce.

  • Flash a smile
  • Make eye contact
  • Keep that body language open

Let your colleagues know you're open for a conversation and some good vibes.

SMALL TALK MAGIC

Let's talk small talk - the unsung hero of friendship building.

  • Begin with casual topics like the latest news or what's happening around.

It might seem trivial - but it's the gateway to more meaningful talk down the road.

LISTEN UP

Listening is a game-changer. When they’re talking - give them your full attention.

  • Ask questions
  • Show you care
  • Sprinkle in some empathy

That's how you build trust and make connections that matter.

OFFICE FUN

Work events, team-building activities or just a casual lunch? Don't skip out on these.

  • It's your chance to let loose
  • Talk about non-work stuff
  • See your colleagues in a different light

You might discover you've got more in common than you think.

TEAM PLAYER

Teamwork is the name of the game.

  • Help out when your teammate is drowning in tasks
  • Share the glory when things go well
  • Keep that positive energy flowing

Being a team player is more than just making work smoother. It's the foundation of lasting friendships.

JUGGLING WORK AND FUN:

Have Friends Outside The Office

HOBBIES UNITE

Beyond the work schedule - there's a world of hobbies waiting for you.

  • Join a sports league
  • Discover your inner chef at a cooking class
  • Uncover a new passion beyond the work schedule

Shared hobbies create instant bonds. It's like friendship on fast-forward.

PARTY TIME

Social events are your golden ticket to expanding your circle. Go to them.

  • Birthdays
  • Community get-togethers

Approach these gatherings with an open mind - ready to meet new faces and add some interesting people to your friend list.

ADVENTURE AWAITS

Life is like a rollercoaster.

  • Embrace the ups and downs by being open to new experiences.
  • Say yes to invitations - even if they push you out of your comfort zone.

New adventures mean new friends. It's a win-win.

POSITIVITY RULES

Keep that positive vibe flowing. A good attitude is magnetic.

  • Focus on the bright side
  • See the good in people
  • Be someone others want to be around

Positivity is like a friendship magnet. It attracts the good stuff.

FRIENDSHIP IS A TWO-WAY STREET

It takes two to tango - or in this case - be friends. Healthy friendships are a mix of:

  • Support
  • Shared experiences
  • A genuine interest in each other's lives

Put some effort into your friendships - and look forward to the same in return.

TIPS AND TECHNIQUES

Surround yourself with people who bring you joy.

  • Flash that genuine smile
  • Start some small talk
  • Be open to the awesome friendships waiting to happen

Remember: Keep building those friendships - and enjoy the good times.

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