Candid Conversations: Vivien Mangalindan
Candid Conversations

Social Confidence: Connecting With Ease

Nov 22, 2024, 7:15 AM
Vivien Mangalindan

Vivien Mangalindan

Columnist

Ever find yourself stuck in awkward moments - unsure what to say or do? Struggling to join a group conversation? Feeling tongue-tied when meeting new people? Worrying about how others perceive you?

Grow your social confidence - and those uncomfortable silences turn into smooth, natural connections.

THE BACK STORY

Social confidence means feeling at ease in social situations. It’s about:

  • Expressing yourself naturally
  • Jumping into conversations
  • Starting chats with new people

People with social confidence are often seen as:

  • Capable
  • Confident
  • Approachable

The best part? It’s a skill you can build.

With small, steady steps - you can feel more comfortable and confident in any social setting.

OWN YOUR VOICE

Speaking Up in Meetings: Have a few points prepared. It helps ease nerves and gives you a confidence boost.

Before:

  • Stella felt nervous speaking up in meetings.
  • She worried about being judged - or saying something wrong.

After:

  • Stella started preparing key ideas before meetings.
  • Now she speaks up comfortably - and feels like a valued part of the team.

MASTER EVERY CONVERSATION


Joining a Group Discussion: Body language matters. Smiling and making eye contact can work wonders.

Before:

  • Steve hesitated to join group talks.
  • He feared interrupting - or being awkward.

After:

  • Steve improved his posture, smiled - and made eye contact.
  • He started asking simple questions - making him a natural part of the group.

NETWORK LIKE A PRO

Start talking to Strangers: A few conversation starters can ease the pressure.

Before:

  • Elaine avoided networking events - unsure of how to start conversations.

After:

  • Elaine prepared easy openers - like complimenting someone’s outfit - or commenting on the event.
  • She began enjoying the chance to meet new people.

TIPS AND TECHNIQUES

Kickstart your confidence with small, do-able steps.

  • Prepare Ahead


Plan conversation starters or points - so you feel ready to engage.

  • Own Your Body Language

Smile, stand tall - and make eye contact. It makes you appear and feel more confident.

  • Engage With Strangers

Start small. Practice with a simple 'hello' or light chat.

  • Push Your Comfort Zone


Small steps outside your norm lead to big progress.

Remember: Grow your social confidence - and you'll connect with ease.

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