Patriotism, or love of country, has often been defined as loving your country and still accepting its faults.
But, as Gen Z's would too often tell you, there should be limits to that love.
Recently, there has been much discussion among Gen Z's on the limits of parental love and breaking off from toxic families.
The argument has been, Why stay or even keep in touch with "leeches" who often demand too much of their children or relatives, but then turn around and backstab them at their lowest moments?
Should that also apply to love of country?
The case of chess whiz Wesley So, who bagged gold medals for the Philippines - only to be squeezed out of his hard-earned money and suspended for petty reasons - is one prime example.
So often said he still loves the Philippines, but won't play for the country anymore after his experience with the country's sports sector that often glorifies winners but offer meager assistance to help them achieve that greatness.
Wesley So isn't alone.
And it's not just limited to sports people.
We've heard the same sentiments from promising Filipino youths, people with potential and talent who often end up disillusioned in a country where corruption and idiocracy has become the norm.
"Pilipinas, ang hirap mong mahalin!"
The truth is, overseas Filipino workers leave not just to provide for their families.
They leave because in the Philippines, opportunities for personal and even national growth has been stunted by self-serving interests.
Loving a country shouldn't mean sacrificing it all in exchange for crumbs.
(James Veloso)
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