Competently Handling Incompetent Critics
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Competently Handling Incompetent Critics

Sep 6, 2024, 7:15 AM
Vivien Mangalindan

Vivien Mangalindan

Columnist

Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do. - Benjamin Franklin

THE BACK STORY

Ever feel like you're drowning in negativity from critics who just don’t understand your work?

  • Whether it’s a harsh review online - or a sneaky jab from someone who doesn’t really know what they’re talking about - dealing with these kinds of comments can be challenging.


DEALING WITH NAYSAYERS

You’ve poured your heart into your work - only to have someone throw you off track with comments that totally miss the point.

  • Frustration creeps in
  • The experience can feel disheartening
  • You might even start questioning your own abilities

Don’t let these distractions drag you down.

Here are some practical strategies to help you handle those critics like a pro.

  • Keep your cool and protect your peace of mind.


SOME CRITICS ARE JUST NOISE

When a critic with little expertise starts throwing shade - it’s easy to react emotionally. But often, these critics have their own insecurities - or hidden motives.

  • It's like a kindergartener arguing with a college grad: lots of noise - but not much substance.

Problem:

  • Taylor feels down because some people don’t get her witty speaking style.

Solution:

  • She pays attention to feedback from people who love her cleverness. This helps her speak better and feel more confident.


IGNORE THE HATERS

Sometimes, the smartest way to handle pointless criticism is to just ignore it. Let the critics talk - and let their lack of know-how be obvious.

Problem:

  • Marvin, a musician, gets sidetracked by unhelpful comments about his music.

Solution:

  • He focuses on feedback from fans and music experts. This keeps his attention on what matters - and helps him improve his sound.

GET INSIGHTS FROM PROS

Incompetent critics often just make noise. They may not give useful feedback. Focus on insights from people who really know their stuff.

Problem:

  • Jenny gets mixed reviews on her cooking - and some of the comments aren't helpful.

Solution:

  • She gathers detailed advice from food critics and experts - improving her cooking skills and leveling up her abilities.

STAY COOL AND CONFIDENT

Handle clueless critics confidently by staying relaxed. Keep your cool and remember your worth. Addressing negativity gracefully shows your confidence.

Problem:

  • Rex, a fitness trainer, gets stressed by unfavorable remarks - and loses focus on his training.

Solution:

  • He stays calm, focuses on positive feedback from clients and handles fault-finding like a pro. This keeps him confident and on track with his training.


TIPS AND TECHNIQUES

Not every critic’s voice is worth your attention. Some critics are clueless.

  • Stick to comments that help you grow. This way, you handle tough comments smoothly.

Embrace your inner strength. When you face incompetent critics - use it as a chance to shine even brighter.

  • Stay focused on what matters
  • Ignore the noise
  • Let your confidence lead the way

Remember: Keep shining - and don’t let anyone dim your light.


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