"Sa loob ng pitong taon Primo, isang beses lang akong sumuko. Sobrang daming dahilan para sukuan ka, hinintay ko lang naman na lumaban ka, kasi alam mong mahal kita. Isang beses lang akong napagod pero iniwan mo na agad ako." - George, "The Hows of Us"
"Kung nandiyan siya, nasaan ako? Ano'ng lugar naming mga gustong magmahal sa ‘yo?" - Mia, "Barcelona: A Love Untold”
"Pwede bang kahit isang beses lang huwag kang gumawa ng kung anu-anong rason? Tumaya ka lang. Kung masasaktan tayo, eh ‘di masaktan. Parte ng pagmamahal ‘yun ‘di ba? Kahit isang beses lang sa buhay mo ayaw mo bang maging matapang?" - Kenji, "She's Dating The Gangster"
“Tinaas mo 'ko eh. Ang taas. Ang hirap maiwan sa ere. ‘Wag ka na magpaasa na kaya mo ‘kong mahalin kung hindi mo rin ako kayang panindigan." - Jackie, "Crazy Beautiful You"
In many popular movies featuring KathNiel, the lines often revolve around the search for love and happiness in a romantic partner. The idea of "three words to forever" is a recurring theme, with the phrase "I DON'T CARE" symbolizing a defiance of societal expectations and the complications of love, relationships, and marriage. However, despite the prevalence of these themes in both movies and real life, they rarely offer a clear solution to these complex issues.
Contrastingly, in my book "Love and Relationships in the 21st Century" the concept of "I AM HAPPY," my three words to forever presents a refreshing perspective. It encourages individuals to take control of their own happiness by proclaiming, "My happiness depends on me, so you’re off the hook." This declaration signifies a shift in mindset, emphasizing personal responsibility for one's emotional well-being, regardless of external circumstances.
The message encourages people to demonstrate their happiness and practice feeling good, independent of others' actions. By doing so, they can liberate themselves from relying on others for their emotional state. This newfound independence allows individuals to cultivate genuine happiness within themselves, irrespective of external influences. The ultimate goal is to reach a point where one's happiness is not contingent upon the actions of others, leading to a deeper capacity to love and appreciate those around them.
The underlying philosophy is that the primary reason individuals may struggle to love others is that they use them as an excuse for their own lack of emotional fulfillment. By shedding this reliance on others for happiness, individuals can free themselves from emotional constraints and open themselves up to love more fully.
This message is relevant and relatable to people from all walks of life. It resonates with the universal desire for happiness and love while offering a practical approach to achieving these fundamental aspirations. The idea of taking control of one's happiness resonates with many, as it empowers individuals to navigate life's complexities with a newfound sense of agency and emotional resilience.
In summary, the prevailing themes of love, happiness, and relationships in popular movies often center around external sources, perpetuating a cycle of dependency and unfulfilled expectations. However, the concept of "I AM HAPPY" introduces a transformative philosophy, emphasizing personal accountability for one's happiness and emotional well-being. By embodying this mindset, individuals can liberate themselves from the burden of relying on others for their happiness, ultimately fostering a deeper capacity to love and appreciate those around them. This message carries a universal appeal, offering a practical and empowering approach to navigating the intricacies of human emotions and relationships.
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