Walk the Talk: Leading By Doing
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Walk the Talk: Leading By Doing

Mar 15, 2024, 3:54 AM
Vivien Mangalindan

Vivien Mangalindan

Columnist

Walk the Talk: Leading By Doing

THE BACK STORY

Ever met folks who proudly dish out advice - but fail to follow it themselves?

  • They preach about leadership and communication.
  • But when it comes to connecting with others - they fall short. Ironic, isn't it?

THE CLUELESS COMMUNICATOR

Sam is skilled at teaching and lecturing.

  • When it comes to communication - he effortlessly recites information with his well-researched and book-smart approach.

But here's the catch: he’s absolutely clueless when it comes to social cues.


LOST IN TRANSLATION

You see, Sam just can't seem to connect with people.

  • While he's busy impressing crowds with his words - he remains completely unaware of people's feelings.

It's like trying to solve a puzzle with half the pieces missing.


THEORY VS. PRACTICE

Sure, Sam thinks his skills are more important. But here's the thing: leadership isn't just about talking. It's about:

  • Building real connections
  • Understanding people
  • Welcoming perspectives of others

LEAD BY DOING - NOT JUST SAYING

Leading by example isn't just a catchy phrase. It's the foundation of great leadership.

  • Picture Sam preaching about authenticity and integrity to a crowd.
  • But behind the scenes - his actions don't match his words.

It's like reading a book that fails to leave a lasting impression.


PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH

And when Sam talks the talk but doesn't walk the walk?

  • It's as if he's giving a sermon without ever stepping into the real world.
  • Leadership isn't a spectator sport. It's about diving in and getting involved.

Without real-life examples - Sam's lessons feel as hollow as an empty soda can.


BOOK-SMARTS VS. STREET-SMARTS

Sam might ace the theory of leadership - but he's flunking the practical side.

  • He's got all the book-smarts but none of the street-smarts: zero real-world experience.
  • Knowing the theory is great - but if you can't put it into practice, what's the point?

It's like trying to teach swimming without ever getting in the water.


LIVING THROUGH OTHERS

And let's not forget Sam’s habit of name-dropping other people's experiences.

  • He's living through their success stories without sharing his own.

How can anyone trust him - if he doesn’t walk the talk?


ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER

Actions speak louder than words.

  • While Sam fails to share his own stories - his behavior still sends a message.
  • Because he doesn't practice what he preaches - people tune out.

Why should they listen if he's not leading by example?


TIPS AND TECHNIQUES

In the end, Sam falls short - because he doesn’t put theory into action.

  • It's similar to sailing a ship without a compass - lost and aimless.
  • Until Sam starts living the principles he preaches - his lessons won't have much impact.

And that's a lesson we can all learn from.

Remember: Bridge the gap by living the life that shows them how it's done.

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